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Why I Decided to Take Off My Clothes and Be Photographed

I’m about to get very vulnerable with you. Because I want you to feel comfortable being vulnerable with me. I want you to know that I’m not perfect- obviously. The concept that there might be some misconceptions about it never even came close to dawning on me until I was coaching at a dating event [...]



After This You’ll be 8-Steps Closer to Being the “Marrying Kind”


What makes you the marrying kind? What compels a man to choose you over everyone else, to kneel down at your feet on one knee and ask you to be his wife? Being the “Marrying Kind” is a complex dance, a balancing act, a study of opposites. Still, there are 8 main elements that make [...]




10 Love Lessons from The Bachelorette: The Final Rose


It’s strange how a reality TV show can help you to get real about your life, reflecting on your own mistakes, even instigating change. For me, this final episode of The Bachelorette had a surprisingly profound impact. It was especially surprising to me because this wasn’t one of my favorite seasons. Still, I really felt [...]



The No-Games Guide to Love


Looking for love? Craving a real connection? Sick of the games? Then stop playing them.  You might not even realize the games you play. You may think that you are just abiding by “the rules,” following the conventional dating expectations that dictate when you should call, not call, make yourself available, pretend to be busy, [...]