As much as I LOVE the Adele lyric: “Nevermind I’ll find someone like you…” I have to say that I disagree. Well, sure when you’re heartbroken you might think you want someone just like them, and you find that you’re attracted to people just like them. But if you have learned and grown from your experience- taken the breakup (and maybe even the relationship in general) as a bummer with benefits, something that made you stronger, better, healthier, and wiser… then THIS will be your mentality instead: