One reason for the universal insecurity about not being “big enough” is the misconception that size correlates directly to sexual satisfaction. But in one study of over 50,000 heterosexual men and women, 85% of women were satisfied with their partner’s penis size, while only 55% of men were satisfied with their own size. Where is this disconnect coming from?
Aside from the locker room shower, most exposure that men get to others equipment is in porn. Not the most accurate point of comparison! That truly is the only field of work in which you get the job because you are bigger…
I write “big enough” in quotes because most men overestimate the size of the average male penis, so “big enough” is often a lot closer to a man’s own size than he even realizes.
The Hard Facts
To get the hard, straight facts (no pun intended) the average male penis, flaccid, ranges from 3.4 to 3.7 inches; erect, from 5.1 to 5.7. The average girth when erect ranges between 3.5 to 3.9 inches.
More than size, technique has a lot to do with satisfaction- which again is specific to the preferences of each individual person.
If you are smaller, don’t stress! Small can still please. Remember that a chick’s g-spot is only about 2-3 inches deep inside her, so you might be the perfect size to hit the spot! You should also hone your talent in other areas- like head (which can seriously create some mind-blowing, head spinning results… even bigger than sex!).
Just to clarify: just because you are the size of a burrito doesn’t mean that you’re God’s gift to women. So please please don’t whip it out and present your package in a “ta-da” fashion as if the chick is lucky. The fact is that she could instead be scared of that thing. If you are larger (yes there IS such a thing as being too big- and it can actually be much worse than too small… think about the consequences of putting something too big into a small hole… ouch), honing your skills in head is a great option for you too, but you should also consider simply being careful with your big guy.
Is Surgery An Option?
Still, men are booking their surgery dates. In most cases, penile enlargement can add no more than one inch in length. Another option is a dermal implant, which can increase girth. Other ways men are trying to “man up”: penis pumps, which are mostly sold in adult stores but do require a prescription. Some pumps can have malfunctioning release mechanisms, putting the user at risk for blood vessel rupture, so be sure to investigate to find the top quality ones. When it comes to pills or topical treatments, these have been found to be as much of a hoax as pills and creams meant to increase breast size. So save yourself the discomfort of putting anything sticky down there.
Regardless of size or shape, if you want to please, it’s about technique. Know how to use your instrument, put your head in the game and your chances to please are greatly increased.